Feminism, feminazis, and masculinity.
"All the guys are disgusting."
"Guys are stupid", "men are so gross", those are some of the responses my most recent survey gave us. The crowd at San Jacinto Plaza in El Paso, Texas included both men and women.
On a mission trying to understand women, which I can assure you I'll probably never accomplish, and men, who are often described with the phrases you read before, I took a night out of this volatile weather in March to go out and ask the community a couple of questions about our male behaviors. Results revealed an almost one-sided answer, and it was against men.
Feminism has been a controversial topic in recent years. Every kind of feminism, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and by ugly I mean the extreme radical feminism. Now, it's very difficult to argue about the comments they made during the survey, which were mostly negative. But that has nothing to do with why so many women have been abused and mistreated by men. It is true that guys act so "disgusting", "nasty", and just plain stupid, when they see an attractive woman or when a beautiful woman says a single word to them, even if they mean nothing at all and it's only a generic response. As a man myself, I can tell you that I agree with all of you women. Guys tend to act so disgustingly in a bunch of different ways. They will stare you down and make stupid and childish gestures, as soon as you show anything out of your beautiful body, sometimes they don't even see have to actually see anything, all it takes is for men to notice just the silhouette of your womanly body. And that's all it takes for MOST guys to act so disgusting. I would guess over 90% of men are disgusting, so the right word should be "most", not "all." Not every man is like that, but the majority are, yes, over 90% of them are disgusting.
The idea behind the new feminist movement ( I say "new" because there have been a few feminist movements in history) was to slow down or prevent aggressiveness and violence against women. But numbers show that they have actually increased in those same years. Why do you think that happened? You see feminism everywhere, even in cereals and milk. The answer is quite simple, and numbers never lie. It's because the population keeps increasing, which only increases the chances of anything happening. And because masculinity has nothing to do with this particular problem, I mean yes and no. I'll elaborate on that.
Men have always been sexual animals by nature. Furthermore, men are more aggressive than women, acting on instinct rather than rationality. Their mistakes will continue to happen and get bigger in nature and consequences, if you don't address the problem from the root. Radical feminism won't eliminate any of the issues. Not having men elected or even nominated won't solve anything. Getting rid of men everywhere won't do a single positive thing for you either. Let's play with extremist suggestions; if you had an overly masculine and narcissistic boyfriend next to the females during an attack, there probably wouldn't be an attack, rape, or criminal action against that woman. At least during that incident. I'm not defending guys. I'm the first one to have always said these things to all people who have chosen to ask me about this topic in the past.
But there's something else happening inside their "stupid" brains, and no one can quite figure it out yet. Those "stupid" men can be wildly impacted by other problems like mental disorders, drug abuse, alcoholism, a broken family home, depression, anxiety, or one thousand other things. You have to find the root of the problem and work on it, instead of coming up with a radical idea. So I've got news for all of you feminazis, your efforts have absolutely no effect on helping all the women in the world. This is until you fix the main issue.
My suggestion for all those stupid guys is simple. Go do those very same things to your girlfriend or wife, I'm sure they need your attention. I'm almost positive you don't act like that with any of your girls, and they lack the attention of a man, which creates another problem actually. Other girls have no interest in seeing your childish gestures and all you do is make girls and people uncomfortable. Society doesn't want to see on social media all your sexual comments. Or hear them at the mall, restaurant, or even at the bar.
You should keep your comments to yourself, as well as your gestures. Don't act like you've never seen a gorgeous woman before. Acting like that creates nothing productive for anybody.
Historically, masculinity has always favored protecting and loving women, although over masculinity and narcissism can also lead to problems. So don't get rid of masculinity, but help us fix it the proper way. Because men need help, all the time. And they also need women. Afterall, women are the most beautiful thing God created. Let's take care of them and love them so they can blossom into something amazing because we are nothing without them.
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